I had a male masseuse and he was the absolute right choice for my sore and broken-down body. I wondered if I was still sexy and still lovable. It was emotionally crushing and killed my self-esteem. My ex and I finally ended our long-term relationship in the last few years of our relationship, the sex was non-existent. At the time, I was also going through a bad breakup. I wasn’t a member but I was having severe pain due to a sports injury and needed some relief. Not a special parlor, but your garden-variety spa known amongst all the new and popular chain spas that have popped up all over the good old USA, offering monthly spa memberships.
I never judged anyone for going but felt it wouldn’t be something I would enjoy. I’ve always heard of men going to special massage parlors for that happy ending “relief” at the end, but I had no idea if that was something that ever happened for women.
